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Attachment/Trauma: Blogs, Videos, Articles & Research
A majority of the videos listed below are provided free of charge from the Empowered to Connect website. Karyn Purvis was an active part of Empowered to Connect and provided her expertise to share with parents. Because Empowered to Connect is a Christian ministry, the videos associated with them do have some faith-based comments.
If you are new to connected parenting, these first two videos are the best place to start!
Introduction to TBRI: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7vjVpRffgHQ
TBRI® An Overview: Putting the Pieces Together: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T43zJDgTNPA
Articles By Topic
Assessment; Different types: http://www.bgcenter.com/bgqa/assessment1.htm
Daniel Hughes PACE: https://ddpnetwork.org/about-ddp/meant-pace/
Discipline/Punishment:
http://www.familyoptimized.com/replacing-punishment-with-connection/
Screen Time: http://kariswong.com/2017/01/reduce-screen-time/
Self Regulation: Seven Key Principles of Self-Regulation and Self Regulation in Context
Blogs, Websites, and Podcasts.
Ryan & Kayla North http://tapestryministry.org/
The Adoption Connection http://www.theadoptionconnection.com/
Circle of Security https://www.circleofsecurityinternational.com/resources
Gordon Neufeld https://neufeldinstitute.org
Laura Markham https://www.ahaparenting.com
Podcast https://www.ahaparenting.com/podcasts
Robyn Gobbel https://gobbelcounseling.wordpress.com
The Empowered Parent Podcast https://www.onebighappyhome.com/podcast/·
Parent Training/Education Videos (In alphabetical order)
Adulthood. Will they be ready?: Will Trust Based Parenting Prepare My Child for the Real World: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o0C9FaidwMY&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ&index=20
Communicating With My Child: Total Voice Control: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7W0B1NEkEo&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ&index=22
Connecting before Correcting: Keeping Connection as the Goal: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FwII_avcFIk&list=PLd_jbB2Zm5tM4mVvdLQpWxCelw-TB9CXa&index=22
Control: Avoiding Control Battles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJRiypEDs4E&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ&index=13
Dads: A Challenge for Adoptive Dads: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7W0B1NEkEo&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ&index=22
Delayed Maturity: Why Won't My Child Act His Age? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H6QFHW6flXE
Discipline: The IDEAL Response for Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=761xx61-q1c
Fair: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7W0B1NEkEo&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ&index=22
Fear: The Impact of Fear: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XS0njDKkcyA&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ&index=10
Feelings: When Sad Looks Mad: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hO6Al8k8hc&index=38&list=PLd_jbB2Zm5tM4mVvdLQpWxCelw-TB9CXa
Food Battles: Engaging Food Battles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBPtp-tFOq8
Lying: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_25i3n3y3FE&feature=youtu.be
Giving Voice: The Importance of Giving Voice to Our Children: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQ6DHYwIocg&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ&index=24
Helping a Child Succeed: Setting Your Child Up to Succeed: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7W0B1NEkEo&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ&index=22
Manipulation & Control: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJ_aAfFyhFo
Marriage: Being On The Same Page: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7W0B1NEkEo&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ&index=22
How Trust Based Parenting Can Impact Your Marriage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orN7fGXfm3o&list=PLd_jbB2Zm5tM4mVvdLQpWxCelw-TB9CXa&index=20
Neurotransmitters: Understanding the Importance of Neurotransmitters: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7W0B1NEkEo&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ&index=22
Playfulness: Give Your Child Playfulness: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3OzJBi_xLKc&index=12&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ
Repairing Mistakes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBPtp-tFOq8
Sensory Processing Disorders: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v79-x34dEm0
Sharing Power: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3Vtza1V8Mk
Sleep Issues: Effective Ways to Deal With Sleep Issues: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ua8QBYNrjrE
Time In vs. Time Out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1-jOm2PyrA
Whole Child: Focusing on the Whole Child: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=taezxFxT4xI&list=PLd_jbB2Zm5tM4mVvdLQpWxCelw-TB9CXa&index=15
YES vs. NO: Building Trust By Saying Yes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7W0B1NEkEo&list=PLluzuWpA1LAMTrf_aB3i9YC6ltf-928aZ&index=22
Research
Complex Trauma in Children and Adolescents: ComplexTrauma_2005_vanderkolk-1.pdf
Developmental trauma disorder: Towards a rational diagnosis for children with complex trauma histories. Bessel A. van der Kolk, MD: Dev_Trauma_Disorder van der Kolk
Parenting & Punishment: http://www.alfiekohn.org/parenting/punishment.htm
Truth, lies, and intimacy: An attachment perspective Jude Cassidy
Video Previews - Introductions to the TBRI Series
Each of the following links leads to a preview of one of the TBRI videos. There is also a link to purchase the video. At the bottom of the list is the link you will use if you would like to simply rent the video for a week. The rental costs run around $7.00/week. To purchase the video you will pay significantly more.
Attachment: Why It Matters: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mNqRhK1fE0U&list=PLd_jbB2Zm5tM4mVvdLQpWxCelw-TB9CXa&index=24
Purchase: https://child.tcu.edu/store/healing-families-dvds/attachment-why-it-matters/#sthash.xV5d220d.dpbs
Children From Hard Places and the Brain: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ak6z3pqNqFU
Purchase: https://child.tcu.edu/store/healing-families-dvds/children-from-hard-places/#sthash.SC1yWfwf.dpbs
Trust Based Parenting: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XGqwz8L6JBo
Purchase: https://child.tcu.edu/store/healing-families-dvds/trust-based-parenting/#sthash.mnW8Kecv.dpbs
TBRI for Teens: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l2sRKTiyGyI
Purchase: https://child.tcu.edu/store/healing-families-dvds/children-from-hard-places/#sthash.SC1yWfwf.dpbs
A Sensory World: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kGuHwXDoX8M
VIDEO RENTALS: If you prefer to rent instead of purchase a video, follow this link: https://icddigital.tcu.edu/us/